Interpersonal Intelligence - People Smart

Ability to relate and understand others. These learners try to see things from other people's point of view in order to understand how they think and feel. They often have an uncanny ability to sense feelings, intentions and motivations. They are great organizers, although they sometimes resort to manipulation. Generally they try to maintain peace in group settings and encourage co-operation.They use both verbal (e.g. speaking) and non-verbal language (e.g. eye contact, body language) to open communication channels with others.

Their skills include:

• seeing things from other perspectives (dual-perspective)

• listening, using empathy

• understanding other people's moods and feelings

• counseling

• co-operating with groups

• noticing people's moods, motivations and intentions

• communicating both verbally and non-verbally

• building trust

• peaceful conflict resolution

• establishing positive relations with other people

Possible Career Paths:

• counselor

• salesperson

• politician

• business person

How To Know HE IS NOT THE ONE IN 10 DAYS (Day 10)

Continuation from How To Know HE IS NOT THE ONE IN 10 DAYS (Day 9)


DAY 10

When you start making plans for the weekend, he's vague.
He tells you things are moving too fast.
And he says this whole "relationship" thing was your idea and he has no clue what you are freaking out about.
He explains the difference between "dating" and "hanging out."
He still tries to have sex.
When you say "no," he says he never liked you anyway.
That night, at a party, he glares at you while making out with another girl.
And he tells all his friends that you are still in love with him.
You drink a beer and start back at DAY 1.

How To Know HE IS NOT THE ONE IN 10 DAYS (Day 9)

Continuation from How To Know HE IS NOT THE ONE IN 10 DAYS (Day 8)

DAY 9


He takes you to a breakfast.
He uses a coupon.
He flirts with the waitress, then does not tip her.
He accuses you of flirting with everybody.
He suggests a 3-some to liven up your sex life.
You notice his back-ne.
He drives with his elbow out the window and plays air guitar on the steering wheel.
He wears sandals/slippers.
He refers to you as his old lady.
He does not include you in any conversation.
If you try to speak, he raises his voice higher.
You realize his boobs are bigger than yours.
After sex, he tells you he wants to marry a virgin.


To be continued...click here to read day 10

How To Know HE IS NOT THE ONE IN 10 DAYS (Day 8)

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DAY 8


He borrows money from you.
You give him a job lead.
He says, "No chick's gonna change me--love it or leave it."
You decide to leave it.
He sits outside your apartment in his car for 6 hours and stares at your front door.
When you leave, he follows you with his lights out.
He goes to a party and gets really drunk.
He booty-calls you.
He tells you he misses you and qoutes cheesy lines from movies.
He says he is ready to change for you.
He recycle and re-gifts a bottle of wine that has a card attached to it that says "LOVE YOU."
During sex, he asks if he can tape the experience so he can remember it forever.


To be continued...click here to read day 9

How To Know HE IS NOT THE ONE IN 10 DAYS (Day 7)

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DAY 7


He shows up, unannounced...drunk...with a pizza.
He makes you break all plans for a romantic day together.
You watch Sports and he shushes you.
He borrows your shorts and brags about how baggy they are.
He gives you pointers on how to better yourself.
He suggests you join an aerobics class.
He farts and says it is because he feels so comfortable with you.
He plays pocket pool.
He refers to high school as the greatest time of his life.
He insist you call him by his nickname.
He shaves his head and says it is time for a tougher image.
Before sex, he asks you to take a shower.
After sex, he takes a shower.


To be continued...click here to read day 8

How To Know HE IS NOT THE ONE IN 10 DAYS (Day 6)

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DAY 6

When you get up to go to work, he won't wake up not matter how hard you try.
He tells you he does not have a job...he is in a band.
He invites the rest of his band over for a jammin session.
They get drunk and pass out on the couch.
When you get home, he asks, "What's for dinner?"
He says that he and his friends are going to a party and you are welcome to tag along (and bring some hot friends).
He makes you drive.
At the party, he starts every sentence with "dude" and ends it with "bro."
He ignores you (unless he needs a drink).
He introduces you as his designated driver.
He refers to himself as "the man."
He has his friends come up and refer to him as "the bomb."
He starts a fight with the weakest guy there.
He constantly one-ups you.
He only laughs at his own jokes.
He tells you that the girl across the room who's staring at him is his ex and she stalked him and he hopes you are not a psycho like that.
Before sex, he constantly asks you how many guys you have slept with.
During sex, he says he can not kiss you because he does not want to get sick (even though you are not sick) but is more than willing to do everything else.
He never "returns the favor."
After sex, he sneaks out and goes back to the party.


To be continued...click here to read day 7

Happy Valentines!!!

Happy Valentines!!!

How To Know HE IS NOT THE ONE IN 10 DAYS (Day 5)

Continuation from How To Know HE IS NOT THE ONE IN 10 DAYS (Day 4)

DAY 5

He calls.
He says he was thinking about you.
But could not call because one of the key in his phone was malfunctioning.
You believe him.

He shows up at your place--late--in his dad's car.
He honks the horn.
He walks five steps ahead of you.
He wears acid wash and pirate-rolls his pants.
He wears more accessories than you do.
He has a unibrow.
He brags about how rich he is, then makes you pay for dinner because he "forget his wallet."
He guesses your weight...wrong.
He guesses your age...right.
He's an expert on everything.
He takes every opportunity to catch a glimpse of himself (in a mirror, a store window, a pond, the hood of his car, etc).
Anywhere you go, he talks about how cool it could be to have sex there.
He constantly checks out other girls.
After dinner, he has nothing else planned and you sit in the car for an hour debating about what to do next.
He insists you play "I never" and pushes you for details.
Before sex, he tells you the reason he has not committed is because he has not found the right girl yet. (He insinuates you are the one).
He tells you that kissing is boring and a waste of time.
During sex, he gets you to try out new positions.
When sex is over too soon, he says it's because he can not control himself...you are that hot!
And it's a relief to not have to worry about a petty conversation.


To be continued...click here to read day 6

How To Know HE IS NOT THE ONE IN 10 DAYS (Day 4)

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DAY 4


He still DOES NOT call.

You call your friends and ask if they think he'll call.

You write in your diary about how a big mistake it was to sleep with him the first night.


To be continued...click here to read day 5

How To Know HE IS NOT THE ONE IN 10 DAYS (Day 3)

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DAY 3

He DOES NOT call and/or He DOES NOT text you.

You constantly check your voice mail or your mobile phone.

You call yourself to check whether your phones are working.


To be continued...click here to read day 4

How To Know HE IS NOT THE ONE IN 10 DAYS (Day 2)

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DAY 2

He tell his roommates everything--he is a kiss and tell guy. (He exaggerates).
Then, he tells you he was really drunk last night and can not remember what happened.
He calls you a cab.
He tells you to keep your relationship secret (because it is so special).
He gives you his calling card and says call anytime you want.
He says he will call you later.


To be continued...click here to read day 3

How To Know HE IS NOT THE ONE IN 10 DAYS (Day 1)

February is the month of the heart...For the women singles out there...especially those looking for Mr. right...if you happen to bump with a man and he said he is interested in you...

Is he really is? Then see and check if he is the one...or not the one

Here's how to know HE'S NOT THE ONE IN 10 DAYS...and the other warning signs...

DAY 1

You meet him at a party.
He tells you the girl he just neglected was his sister.
He acts as if really really interested in everything you say but forgets it immediately.
He gets really drunk playing this new game he made up called "DRINK."
At his place, he offers a massage.
When you tell him you want to take it slow, he says he does, too.
He talks about the future...kids, marriage, target salary.
He says he didn't believe in love at first sight until he met you.
You have sex. (He insists the lights stay on.)
During sex, he complains about wearing a condom. (They're just too tight.)
After sex, he falls asleep.

To be continued...click here to read day 2